urie:

its not tuesday but here’s a transformation anyway…

the first selfie was taken a little over 2 years ago. i was in a relationship where my individuality was taken away from me and i wasn’t comfortable expressing myself in any way. i wanted to cut my hair, he said he preferred long hair. i wanted to dye it, he asked me why i didn’t “consult him” first. i was worried to buy clothes that i liked because i knew he wouldnt like them. i was controlled in nearly every aspect of my life. 

so fastforward a little bit. im happy w/ who i am and im really happy with how i’ve turned out. i think i get stronger and happier every day. and most importantly no one is telling me what i’m allowed to do or how i should dress or what color my hair should be. happy happy happy. feeling a lot better now